Age Range

6-14 years old

Duration

45 minutes

Difficulty Level

⭐⭐⭐

Category

Emotions

Anger Management Techniques

Handle anger in healthy ways

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Tags

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Activity Steps

1

Recognize the Angry Feelings

Approx. 3 min

Start by helping your child notice when they're getting frustrated or angry. Use the Emotion Thermometer Chart together—point to different levels and ask, "Where are you feeling right now?" This simple check-in builds emotional awareness that's crucial for early childhood education. Kids might notice their heart racing, fists clenching, or face feeling hot. These physical cues become important signals they'll use later when managing big emotions during family activities.

💡 Tips

  • Practice during calm moments first—don't wait for a meltdown to introduce the thermometer. Familiarity helps kids use it when emotions run high.
  • Use concrete examples from daily life: "Remember when your brother took your toy? Where would that be on the thermometer?" This connects abstract emotions to real experiences.
2

Use the Calm-Down Jar Technique

Approx. 4 min

Introduce the glitter jar as a visual tool for settling down. When your child feels anger rising, shake the jar together and watch the glitter swirl and slowly fall. This mesmerizing activity gives their brain a break from the intense emotion and models how feelings settle over time—just like the glitter. It's one of those simple things to do with kids that works surprisingly well for redirecting energy without forcing a conversation they're not ready for yet.

💡 Tips

  • Keep the jar visible in a calm-down corner or on a low shelf where kids can grab it independently. Accessibility matters more than aesthetics.
  • Make shaking it a fun ritual, not a punishment. Say "Let's use the magic jar" instead of "Go calm down now." Language shapes how they perceive the tool.
3

Practice Belly Breathing with Stuffed Animal

Approx. 5 min

Teach deep breathing using a stuffed animal as a breathing buddy. Have your child lie down with their favorite stuffed toy on their belly. As they breathe in slowly through their nose, the toy rises like it's riding a wave. As they exhale through their mouth, the toy gently falls. This hands-on approach makes abstract breathing exercises concrete for early childhood learners, turning it into a playful game instead of a chore.

💡 Tips

  • Choose a lightweight stuffed animal that's easy to balance and see moving. Too heavy and it won't rise visibly; too light and it flies off during breaths.
  • Make it a bedtime ritual so the skill becomes automatic. Five minutes before sleep is perfect for practicing these things to do with kids without feeling like a lesson.
4

Draw or Write in Anger Journal

Approx. 6 min

Give your child space to express anger creatively using an anger journal and colored pencils. Instead of bottling up feelings or acting them out, they draw what made them mad—scribbles, faces, storm clouds, whatever feels right. Older kids can write a few sentences about the trigger. This outlet transforms destructive anger into productive expression, a cornerstone of healthy emotional development during early childhood education. It's one of those simple activities for kids that gives them agency over big emotions.

💡 Tips

  • Let them decorate the journal cover with stickers, washi tape, or drawings so it feels personal and special. Ownership increases usage.
  • Offer prompts if they're stuck: "Draw what your body felt like when you were angry" or "Show me what you wished had happened instead."
5

Move Your Body with Dance or Action Cards

Approx. 4 min

Channel anger into physical movement using dance music or action cards. When frustration builds, turn on upbeat kid-friendly music or pull an action card ("Jump 10 times," "Shake like a wet dog," "Spin slowly"). Physical activity releases pent-up energy that fuels angry outbursts, redirecting it into something productive. This is one of those family activities that feels like fun, not discipline—kids don't realize they're learning anger management while dancing around the living room.

💡 Tips

  • Create a "movement playlist" together during a calm moment so it's ready when anger strikes. Ownership makes them more likely to use it.
  • Use visual action cards with pictures for non-readers—simple drawings of kids jumping or spinning work great for early childhood learners.

Materials Needed

Emotion Thermometer Chart

1

$2-5

💡 Suggested stores: Amazon, Target, Teachers Pay Teachers

Calm-Down Jar (Glitter & Oil)

1-2

$3-8

💡 Suggested stores: Craft stores, Dollar Tree, Target

Breathing Buddy Stuffed Animals

1-2

$5-15
Optional

💡 Suggested stores: Target, Costco, Amazon Prime

Anger Journal & Colored Pencils

1 notebook + 12-pack pencils

$6-12
Optional

💡 Suggested stores: Target, Staples, Dollar Tree

Movement Cards or Dance Music Playlist

1 set printed + 1 Spotify/YouTube playlist

Free-$8
Optional

💡 Suggested stores: Print at home (free), YouTube, Spotify Free, Amazon

Common Questions

Troubleshooting

Preparation

Ensure enough time to complete the activity

Prepare required materials and tools

Choose appropriate environment and venue

Safety Tips

Please ensure activities are conducted under adult supervision and pay attention to safety.